Hello and Congratulations! You have not only made a commitment to each other, but you have a made a commitment to making this new marriage work. This is a critical step in creating a lasting relationship that not only benefits you but everyone close to you.
What do you know that they don’t? Arm yourself with the information that will make this marriage your last. Hi, I’m Alyssa Johnson, LCSW. I’m a blended family therapist who specializes in helping everyone in the family cope with the new experience. I have witnessed every possible problem that arises in remarriages and blended families. I’ve narrowed down these experiences into…
THE 7 Questions to Ask Before Saying, “I Do” AgainI wrote THE 7 Questions to Ask Before Saying, “I Do” Again because I see too many second marriages split. Let’s face it, how strong can your commitment be if you’re not willing to ask these questions of yourself and your future spouse? Let’s look at some basic questions about blending two families into a cohesive unit:
This is a “must” read for the couple who cares about making a relationship work. No matter who was to blame for the problems of the first marriage, everyone can benefit from my book. You owe it to yourself and your children to go into this remarriage with your eyes wide open. ‘THE 7 Questions to Ask Before Saying, “I Do” Again’ is a 2 book set – a step-by-step guidebook and workbook – that will allow you to explore these questions on your terms. I believe that, if you’re honest with yourself, you will identify the strengths and weaknesses of your current relationship and, by the end of the book, you will have the confidence to get married. I typically charge $110 per hour for six sessions that it would take to work through this course.
All seven questions on one sheet that you can hang up for easy access and review. We know that the answers to these questions may not come instantly. This sheet allows your subconscious to work on the answer while you get other work completed.
This e-course, valued at $17, walks you through seven steps that will create a successful marriage and step family.
I began coaching Melissa & Eric about six months into their marriage. Melissa was twice divorced several years before meeting Eric. Eric’s divorce had been final for less than a year and custody arrangements were still tense. They’d met shortly after he moved out of the family home. Both described enjoying each others’ company and having a wonderful time dating. They felt an “instant” bond. Due to feeling so strongly for one another, they decided to marry after having dated for only two months. They both felt that since they’d spent so much of their time together during those 2 months, they genuinely knew one another and believed they were “meant to be.” Within 1 month of the marriage and moving in together, both of them began having serious reservations about the relationship. Eric stopped being as “fun” and didn’t want to go out as much. Melissa described feeling lied to. Eric was unhappy with what he called Melissa’s “controlling” nature when it came to the couple’s money. They were in serious trouble when they walked into my office.
It was immediately clear that neither of them had adequately prepared for the challenges of this marriage.
Melissa & Eric had a long road ahead of them. Unfortunately, because they had rushed into things too quickly and weren’t as committed to each other and the marriage as they needed to be, their marriage ended.
They became one of the 60% of second marriages to end in divorce
No matter how in-love you are, you must read this e-book set, look deep into yourself, and know the answers to… THE 7 Questions to Ask Before Saying, “I Do” Again. My books will help you to understand that all the work you did to find the “right” partner is just the beginning. Are you the “right” partner for them? Do you remember the pain of your breakup and divorce from your first spouse? Do you think that your family can emotionally afford to go through that again?
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I’ve dedicated my life to making marriages and families succeed. That’s why I’m only asking for $27 for this two-book set. Hurry, I will be forced to increase prices soon. THE 7 Questions to Ask Before Saying, “I Do” Again is the book that will be the first step to success in marriage.
P.S.If you were to hire me to spend the day with you, and teach you all that you will learn in these 2 books, it would cost you at least $600. For a fraction of the cost you can learn all the same secrets in less time, AND get the benefit of learning it in the comfort of your own home! You get all this: your easy to follow guide through step family preparation, the companion workbook, PLUS all the bonuses for only $27. Please, do yourself a favor, do your future spouse a favor, do your kids and your parents a favor and get this set. It’s only $27, but it could be priceless as you embark on a happily ever after!