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Over 60% of Re-marriages End in a Re-divorce. Don't be a Statistic, Become a Success!
Are You Tired of Being Angry About Your Divorce?
I just got back from my son's basketball game. There's nothing like watching a bunch of five year olds take 10 steps, dribble once, throw an elbow and shoot an air ball to get you laughing and forget about that long to do list you've got for later in the day. You know what really bugs me? When people miss out on enjoying these simple pleasures and everyday joys because they are so wrapped up in being angry at someone for something they did to them in their past. I've seen far too many people run to a therapist to help them sort through their childhoods looking for someone to blame for their current unhappiness. Meanwhile they spend 2 years and too much money and still wind up being unhappy and angry. One of my favorite things to do is taking someone who has just gone through a divorce, and showing them ways to move past the anger they feel in order to quickly move forward with their life becoming a better parent and ultimately a better partner in the process. How Remarriage Success Changed My Life As a therapist in my second decade of service, I have worked with many different types of people, facing numerous challenges. I began my career working exclusively with children, and eventually branched out into working with their families. As time progressed, it became clear that if I could work with the parents of these children and their marriages, I could have an even greater impact in preventing some of the difficulties these children experienced. Out of this change grew my passion for working with couples. It was in the Spring of 2006 when my 7 year old daughter asked me why a kid would need to see me that it all became clear. I was trying to describe the work I do at a level that would make sense to her. As I tried to be as succinct as possible, I realized that about 95% of the time it boiled down to divorce or some other type of break up of these children's families. Once this realization occurred, I decided that I wanted to do something about that. It was at this point, when I decided it was time to begin sharing my knowledge, gained from years of experience, in ways other than just in my office. And here is the interesting and powerful thing that can change your life. I've found that one of the most damaging things you can do to yourself and your children right after a divorce, is to hold on to your anger. It becomes like an infection contaminating everything. Now catch this: there are specific steps you can take right now, that will enable you to let that anger go so you can be a better parent and eventually a better partner! That is the power of what you will learn in this special report. Learn the Secrets of Letting Your Anger Go When you use this system and these secrets, you can grow to the place where you can focus on your future rather than be held hostage by your feelings from the past. If you don't know and use these secrets that I teach, you are leaving yourself open to causing more harm to yourself and your children. Everyday I consult with recently divorced individuals just like yourself who are embittered by everything that's happening to them. They feel "stuck" and furious about all of the recent events. These feelings lead them to make choices that negatively impact their children and enter into unhealthy new relationships. I don't want this to happen to you! Here's what you will learn when you use my secrets and system for dealing with your anger from divorce:
These are just a sample of all you will learn in this powerful Special Report. My favorite story My favorite story about the power of these secrets is when I had a client who was so angry she began stalking her ex-husband. She would follow him, and call him at all hours of the night just to tell him how angry she was over an affair he'd had. Her anger got the best of her and she began focusing on ways to hurt him all of the time. These thoughts consumed her to the point where she began to scare her children. She withdrew from them and didn't hide her distaste for their father. This was a side of their mother, the kids had never seen before. They didn't know what to do with this "stranger." But then she came to see me. I used these same strategies and secrets with her. She was able to recognize how much time she was wasting being angry about her past; a past that wasn't going to change. She realized the damage this anger was causing her children. She also saw how this anger was blocking her ability to move forward into a happy future that was waiting for her. These strategies and secrets allowed her to deal with her anger from divorce, become the parent she wanted to be and begin to prepare herself for a future she wanted to grasp all in a very brief amount of time. Give Me Just A Couple of Hours and I'll Teach You All the Secrets I've Been Using with People Just Like You for Over 10 Years. Secrets that Will Allow You to Move Past the Anger and Become a Better Parent and Partner. To celebrate the release of this new Special Report, I'm offering a special limited time discount off the regular cost of $19.97. That means you can get in on this content packed Special Report for only $14.97. But you've got to act soon, because the price goes up to the regular price of $19.97 in the next couple of weeks. If you are saying "I'm ready Alyssa, I want the Special Report" click here now to learn how to deal with your divorce anger in order to be a better parent and partner. Here's how one of my clients benefited from learning these secrets: Joe and Sally recently divorced. As most recent ex's, they were irritable (to say the least) with one another. Unfortunately, this was impacting the 10 year old son directly. They were making snide comments to their son about each other and their new lifestyle. Their son, Joey, felt stuck in the middle. His grades started dropping and he began to withdraw from his friends and both parents. It was this drop in grades that brought him to my office. He was able to clearly identify feeling stuck in the middle of his parent's battles. He described the pain it caused him to hear two people he loved dearly name calling each other and sharing how much they "hated" one another. With Joey's help, I was able to explain to Joe and Sally, the impact that their anger was having on their son. Hurting Joey was the last thing they intended to do. Within a few short appointments I was able to teach both parents, together, how to improve their ability to co-parent and manage their anger. They are all doing really well right now. The last time I talked with them, Joey was on the honor roll, Joe had remarried, and Sally had begun dating again. All of the results came from the tips I will share with you in this special report! But you don't have to take just my word for it. Here is what some others have had to say about the secrets and techniques I teach!
Don't be one of the people that gets stuck in this anger and misses out on years of happiness with their children and eventually a new partner!
And Get This! Not only will you get the Special Report, but you will also receive these bonuses:(Bonus
#1) "What is Step Family Preparation?" ($17 value).
This 7 part series answers all your questions on what you need to do
to have a successful remarriage and step family. (Bonus #2) "The 7 Questions To Ask Before Saying 'I Do' Again" Tipsheet ($5 value). Receive these powerful questions listed altogether on one sheet for easy access and review in order to continue moving toward Remarriage Success! Click Here To Purchase your copy of the Special Report, "I'm Just So Mad!" You get all this: simple ways to leave the past in the past, and become a better parent and partner, PLUS all the bonuses for only $14.97. P.S. Think of it this way - If you were to hire me to spend the day with you, and teach you all that you will learn in this Special Report, it would cost you at least $500. For a fraction of the cost you can learn all the same secrets in less time, AND get the benefit of learning it in the comfort of your own home!
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